Wrong, right, good, bad. Pleasant, unpleasant. Should or shouldn't are constantly coloring our experiences. There is a tendency to push away the things that feel bad and try to grasp and keep the things that feel good The truth is that whether we like it or not there is an opportunity to learn something about ourselves...about life...about nature.
There is this "thing" that is right there in front of me. I can't see it, hear it, and I can't touch it. I feel that "it" is the answer to life's biggest puzzle.